Hestia: Greek Goddess of Hearth and Home

Hestia, the Greek Goddess of the sacred fire, was once known as “Chief of the Goddesses” and “Hestia, First and Last”. She was the most influential and widely revered of the Greek goddesses.

Though the goddess Hestia was once the most important of the Greek goddesses, she (like her counterpart, the Roman goddess Vesta) is virtually unknown today. Her name means “the essence,” the true nature of things.

A Goddess That Appreciated Her Peace

Scholars often refer to the goddess Hestia as “the forgotten goddess.” Because of her association with hospitality, the word Hestia can mostly be heard today used in the names of inns and restaurants, making some people wonder if “Hestia” is the name of a franchise.

Unlike the other Greek goddesses, Hestia does not have a “story”; she simply “is.” Additionally, only a few images of the goddess Hestia exist. As she was a very “private person,” her symbols: the sacred flame and the circle, are usually used to represent Hestia in works of art.

​Hestia’s brief stories, retold here, are too scanty to instruct us. It is her traits, not her actions that most define her. These virtues define the goddess Hestia: mild, gentle, forgiving, peaceful, serene, dignified, calm, secure, stable, welcoming, and, above all else, well-centered.

​Hestia’s History 

​Of all the Olympian gods and goddesses, Hestia was born first. And also the last. 

Her parents were the Titans, Cronus and Rhea. She was their first child, but Cronus, made fearful by a prophecy that one of his children would grow up to usurp his throne, quickly swallowed the infant Hestia (as he did the brothers and sisters that followed) in order to prevent the fulfillment of the prophecy.

Later, following the birth of Zeus, the grieving goddess Rhea tricked her husband into swallowing a rock wrapped in swaddling instead of the infant, causing him to vomit up all the babies he had swallowed. First in, Hestia was the last to be disgorged. Hence, the goddess was often called “Hestia, First and Last.”

The goddess Hestia grew in grace and beauty and soon caught the attention of the gods Apollo and Poseidon, who both sought her hand in marriage. But Hestia wasn’t having any of it and saying that Aphrodite’s ways (romance and marriage) were not her ways, she placed her hand on Zeus’ brow and swore an oath that she would not marry.

More than anything else, she wanted to follow a path that was true to her nature and of her own choosing.

A Choice To Lead An Untroubled Life

Hestia didn’t require the trappings of power or adventure (like Athena and Artemis, the other virgin, i.e., unmarried goddesses). She was perfectly content and fulfilled being “Aunt Hestia” and enjoyed being of service to her family and community.

Zeus, grateful that Hestia’s announcement had averted the possibility of war between the rival suitors, not only supported Hestia’s wish to remain single but decreed that Hestia’s name should be mentioned first in any prayer and she should receive the first portion of any sacrifice and be honored in the temples of each of the Olympian deities.

So delighted was he with Hestia’s decision that Zeus handed her the keys to the family home (Mount Olympus) and offered her the position of manager and, with it, the responsibility of running this vast estate while the rest of the gods and goddesses wandered about in the larger world having all sorts of adventures.

True to her nature, Hestia stayed at home, never leaving Mount Olympus, always there to welcome the others and enjoy their “homecomings.”

Hestia’s Duties

The goddess Hestia never involved herself in the fights and machinations of the other gods and goddesses, somehow managing to stay above the fray.

Olympus Manager

Non-judgmental and forgiving, her “unconditional love” and calm acceptance inspired the love and trust of others in return. Dependable and caring, Hestia was always there for them, helping them manage their lives which. They were certainly more exciting than her own.

One of Hestia’s most important responsibilities as the estate manager was as “Keeper of the Reserves”. Seeing to it that all their clothing and equipment was in good repair and the pantry always full so there would be ample food and wine on hand when any of the gods and goddesses returned from their adventures.

As keeper of the key to all the supplies, Hestia efficiently managed the large household, pleasing all with her practical dependability.

The Protector Of Guests

One of the few myths of Hestia tells how the lustful Priapus attempted to rape her as she slept. As he approached her bed, a donkey (long since a symbol of lust) began to bray loudly, awakening the slumbering Hestia. Her screams awoke the other gods and goddesses and sent the embarrassed Priapus falling all over himself as he fled.

Hestia is also known as the originator of the concept of “sanctuary.” It was an offense to Hestia to refuse hospitality to a stranger. That those in need were to be sheltered and protected from ill-treatment was recognized by Hestia’s followers as a sacred obligation.

Special emphasis was placed on the requirement to not “take advantage” of a female guest, presumably as a result of Hestia’s experience with Priapus.

Hestia And Hermes – An Unlikely Friendship

Hestia is often spoken of in conjunction with her friend and neighbor Hermes, the god of communication and travel. They were polar opposites in terms of personality—Hestia spoke little and stayed at home,. Outgoing Hermes on the other hand had the “gift of gab” and traveled to the far ends of the world.

Though a marriage of such disparate characters clearly could not have succeeded, they shared strong bonds of friendship. They are remembered together in the Homeric Hymns (edited by H.G. Evelyn-White):

”…be favorable and help us you [Hermes] and Hestia, worshipful and dear. Come and dwell in this glorious house of friendship together, for you two, well-knowing the noble actions of men, aid their wisdom and strength.”

The Flame Of Hestia

The circle symbolized Hestia (and her counterpart, the Roman Goddess Vesta) as the “complete” goddess. The goddess who was whole, “one complete within herself”. Hestia was seen as not only psychologically “centered” but also as representing the center. As an extension she was the center of the home and family, the city, and even the world itself.

The source of Hestia’s sacred fire was believed to be the molten lava that burns at the center of the earth, connected by an “umbilical cord” called the Omphalos to the city of Delphi, a place of great wisdom and spiritual energy.

The town hall, a meeting place for citizens to discuss the community’s affairs (a forerunner of western democracy), was built around a hearth that honored Hestia.

The living flame of Hestia was tended constantly and never allowed to die out, for it represented the energy of all life and to let the flame extinguish was to invite a cold and barren existence. When new “subdivisions” were developed, the fire was carried from the town’s hearth to light the fire of the new community, assuring its prosperity.

The Olympic Torch is just one example of the living flame that has survived to modern times, though it is seldom recalled that it originally honored the Greek goddess Hestia.

Rituals Related To Hestia

The ritual of a bride and groom lighting a candle together from the flames of two candelabra to symbolize the creation of the “new” family from their two “old” families derived from the ancient practice of bringing Hestia’s flame from the bride’s mother’s home in order to assure Hestia’s blessing on the union.

​Every home had a hearth that was dedicated to the goddess, and each day began and ended with a ritual requesting that she protect and nurture the family within.

As the Goddess of Architecture, Hestia intended that homes should be built from the center out, with the center being a hearth that contained her sacred flame.

As part of the naming ritual, all infants were carried in a circle around the altar of Hestia to secure her blessings. There was an altar to Hestia in the center of every home – it was the fireplace, the hearth, where the family gathered.

Hestia’s vision of a house was that it should truly be a home. A place where one’s body, spirit, and relationships would be nurtured and replenished. To be a place to “come home to” after exposure to the cold and chaos of the external world.

Legacy

Hestia is associated with the warmth and comfort of the welcoming fireplace. Just as the flames glowing from the hearth soothe us with their warmth and glowing light, the goddess Hestia gives us security, peace, and comfort and helps us accept the truth of our lives with inner grace.

Hestia Symbols

Hestia (also known as the Roman goddess Vesta) is often represented by goddess symbols associated with her personality traits, the sacred flame, and her contribution to civilization, personal households, and to architecture.

General

A hearth is one of the main symbols of Hestia since she was the goddess of home and sacred fire. As such, the hearth symbolizes warmth, security, protection, family, and home.   

Hestia’s other symbols are architecture, bowls, veils, pantries, and keys.

Animals

Donkeys and pigs are one of the most useful animals in the household, and there is certainly a lot of symbolism related to those animals that can also be associated with Hestia. 

For example, donkeys symbolize integrity, honesty, diligence, courage, and truth. Pigs, on the other hand, symbolize fertility and success in business and careers.

Plants

Plants and flowers that symbolize Hestia are the angel’s trumpet (Datura), California poppy, goldenrod, hollyhock, purple coneflower, and yarrow.

Perfumes/Scents

Angelica’s root scent is musky, earthy, and warm, perfectly symbolizing Hestia’s essence. Her other associated scents and perfumes are iris, lavender, and peony.

Gems and Metals

Amethyst symbolizes purity, protection, wisdom, humility, and healing, all of those associated with Hestia. Other gems and metals symbolizing Hestia are garnet, gold, silver, and brass.

Colors

As the goddess of the sacred fire, it is logical that Hestia is symbolized by gold color. Other colors that can symbolize this goddess are dark rose, lavender, silver, and black.

Hestia’s Meditations

  • I have dreams, goals, and so many things I want to get done that it is truly overwhelming. Teach me, Hestia, to manage them better.
  • Remind me that goals are seldom achieved overnight. Help me take one step at a time, setting smaller goals within the larger ones.
  • Make me more concerned and considerate of myself.
  • Help me to consider my own feelings and needs, not always placing others first.
  • I accept the responsibility for ensuring my own happiness and for seeing to it that my needs are met.
  • Thank you, Hestia, for helping me keep my environment peaceful and harmonious today.
  • Hestia, remind me today that, like you, I am caring and have a good heart.
  • Help me set aside my irritation when I’m interrupted.
  • Let me take time to show your welcoming interest and hospitality to someone asking for my attention.
  • Great goddess, help me to remain centered and emotionally available to others.
  • Lend me your clarity, Hestia, when I think about what I really want in my life.
  • Make me strong enough to not just tolerate or accept what life has thrown in my path.
  • Help me, Hestia, to know who I am and what I need to be fulfilled.
  • Hestia, let me honor my commitments and stay true to my beliefs.
  • Hestia, help me create quality time with my family.

Want To Bring More Hestia Qualities Into Your Life?

Hestia
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  • Make your home a sacred space. Hestia felt at peace in her home and knew its value in keeping her filled with energy. So you hate housework? Make it more enjoyable by doing it as a meditation to Hestia.
  • Hestia ensured continuity in the lives of her family. Make a scrapbook of family memories. Keep and treasure an object, or several, in your home that belonged to an elder female in your family.
  • Learn to listen actively, to not allow yourself to be drawn automatically into arguing. You can always say something like, “It’s obvious this is important to you, and you probably have an important point. I need to think about it and see if we can’t come to an agreement.”
  • No matter how busy you might be, set aside some time each day to connect with someone you care about. Take just a few minutes to give them your full attention and some quiet appreciation. You’ll find yourself a much more loving and desirable person.
  • Be prepared. Manage your resources wisely. Put off an extravagance and set some money back for a rainy day.
  • Don’t be afraid to speak your mind and let everyone else know what you need and want. Hestia got what she wanted by speaking out.
  • Say “no” when you really don’t want to be accommodating or go out of your way to please someone else. This way you can say “yes” with enthusiasm at other times and really mean it.
  • Adorn yourself with an amethyst, Hestia’s symbol gemstone, to call forth her soothing energy. Or carry a crystal with you and hold it occasionally to help you recenter and rebalance.

Other Goddesses

If you enjoyed this post we are sure you will enjoy getting to know some of the other goddesses we also write about. You can find the complete list of goddesses sorted across regions and religions here.

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Sharon and Elizabeth Turnbull, mother and daughter team and the website's midwives, had over 45 years of combined work and continuous study in psychology when they decided to create the Goddess Quiz and goddessgift.com. In 2001, we launched our mission to provide visitors with tools for personal insight, self-knowledge, inspiration, and refinement.Sharon, the bestselling author of Goddess Gift (a book about finding the goddess in yourself) worked as a senior partner in a consulting firm, a speaker at seminars and conferences, and as a professor and administrator at four universities during an academic career that spanned over three decades.Liz is also a published author who works as a healthcare provider, an instructor in communication skills for healthcare providers, and leads workshops on multiple subjects including health/healing, communication, and personal growth. It is our greatest hope that our gift may help the Sacred Feminine within and all around us thrive and bless us all with Her Gifts.